Are you so used to CHAOS that it feels normal?

Sep 15, 2020 04:30 PM Central
Eileen Jones
From Chaos to Shalom
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How do you recognize chaos when your body, marriage, family and home have been so out of whack that the chaotic lifestyle seems the norm?

Here are some signs of Chaos in your life:

Conversations often lead to conflict because you don’t listen well or respond correctly.
You have something to say, but you have a hard time clarifying exactly what that is, and you sometimes don’t say it at all because you are afraid you’ll be rejected.
You need to be in charge, you can’t let go enough to trust God or other people.
Your relationships are strained, and someone is often offended in your family or among your friends.
Feelings of anxiousness and sadness are a regular thing in your life.
Your sleep isn’t peaceful or deep.
You feel tightness in your chest on a regular basis and you think that is normal.
Little things trigger you and cause you to get rubbed the wrong way, you often feel irritated.
You crave sugar and carbohydrates.
There is always some little health annoyance in your life.
Your children and/or spouse seem sullen and grumpy a lot.
Your finances are often in upheaval.
Your digestion is often upset.
You generally feel in fear of what other people think of you.
Others think you are often upset with them.
You have a hard time sitting still, you either feel like you should always be working, or you think others expect you to always be working.
You have a constant need to multi-task.

If you experience at least 3 of these on the daily, you may be surrounded by chaos. Which of these CHAOS signs are a regular, unwelcome guest in your life?

Chaos can come from so many sources, it can come from internal sources in your own thoughts, words, and actions. But it can also come from the outside! In the next segment I’ll outline some places chaos can come from as we work toward eliminating chaos and obtaining SHALOM (completeness, wholeness, and peace!)

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Welcome to my blog! I'm so glad you are here!
We're going to tackle some pretty heavy subjects here, but don't worry, we'll have some light topics too. Laughter is good medicine!

I'd love to introduce myself! My honey and I have been married 33 years, I have 7 children and 1 grandchild. I have home educated my children for 28 years.

I used to be irritable and short tempered, you can read my whole story at the bottom of this page. But now, I am on a journey to help other women learn how to overcome the things that have kept them stuck emotionally, physically, spiritually and mentally.

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I help people find healing, even if they think their wounds are too deep!

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I thought I was a horrible person...

Everything made me so angry inside and I couldn’t stop the screaming rages. I could hear myself say, “Just STOP!” in the middle of a fit, but I was helpless to shut my mouth. I felt like I was watching a different person react, but it was me! After a day of raging I would lay in bed hearing, “You should just shoot yourself, you’re ruining your children,” over and over in my head.

My children were afraid of me, one was cutting, one kept running away. I knew it was my fault, but I couldn’t seem to admit it. I couldn’t handle anymore guilt.

Everything seemed to cause stress, nothing was peaceful, the smallest thing would send me to my room to hide. The asthma I had since I was a little girl, that was so horrible I felt like my lungs were going to explode, was magnified by the stress and rages.

When I knew it couldn’t handle any more, it got worse. I started having miscarriages, I became allergic to everything, I was always wheezing, I had constant headaches, and all I had the energy to do was sleep.

I was sure my situation just needed more prayer, so I prayed and prayed, went to counseling, went through deliverance, but I only ended up feeling even more guilt, because I wasn’t getting better.
Then one day I began to see a connection…. when I’d eat or smell certain things I would lose control afterwards. I noticed a pattern between stressful situations and being too tired to leave my bed. I finally saw that I had been living with severe adrenal fatigue for most of my motherhood. I also realized that I had been deeply wounded by things in my childhood that I didn't even remember clearly.
It was a journey of trial and error, learning exactly what had been poisoning my body and mind every day, but gradually I discovered tools and strategies that helped me make huge strides in calming the drama in my home and heart. I learned to overcome the wounds and trauma, I learned to shut down the lies.
As my adrenals healed and my heart healed from past trauma, the suicide, depression, and asthma disappeared, and energy came back. I didn’t feel trapped inside a rampaging maniac, I felt peaceful for the first time!

I wake up now content about the day to come. I’m not worried that I’ll ruin someone’s life today! In fact, I spend my days helping others find freedom, healing, and JOY!

You are not alone, and you don’t have to feel trapped by your past, by lies you've believed, or even by physical issues like adrenal fatigue! There is a simple path to peace. If you are ready to begin, contact me!

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