The Problem with Speaking Life
It’s time to NOT focus on changing your words…
 What?!
 Can you believe I just said that?


If you know me at all, you know that I believe that life and death are in the power of the tongue, and that words have a huge influence on our lives. Let’s look at some verses that tell us our words are important, then we’ll go a bit deeper. Proverbs 18:20-21, Matthew 12:37, Proverbs 13:2-3, Proverbs 21:23, Ecclesiastes 10: 12-14 are just a small sampling of verses that talk about the importance of life giving words.

 These verses tell us what comes from evil words, and what comes from good words. We learn that words have the power to give life, we learn that our words make us condemned or innocent, we learn that we can either protect ourselves or invite ruin with our words, that being careful of our words keeps our soul from distress, and that wise people have gracious words, but fools are consumed by their words.


But if we start with changing our words, we’ve missed a few steps!

Your words tell me the condition of something else. If you focus on changing your words without changing the deeper issue, you will be an actor in a movie striving in your own power, you will be focused on performance, and people will easily see through your façade.

If you must strive to keep your words positive, then you have missed the other steps in the process, because “Out of the fullness of the heart, the mouth speaks” so whatever is inside is going to come out at some point!

You cannot put rotten eggs in a jar and get out pickles.  Your heart is a fermenting jar! Fermenting only magnifies the benefit and flavor of what you put in.  When you try to ferment rotten produce you will amplify the rotten, when you ferment good healthy veggies, even healthier food is produced!  

It’s time to focus not on what is coming out (your words) but what is inside, and even more importantly, what you are getting filled with.

It is popular and trendy to focus on our words, our choices, and our actions. This culture is results oriented. But we forget that the health of those things is determined by what went in. Have you been listening to, and looking at things that cause a hard, trampled heart, thorns, thistles, and rot?

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I thought I was a horrible person...

 
Everything made me so angry inside and I couldn’t stop the screaming rages. I could hear myself say, “Just STOP!” in the middle of a fit, but I was helpless to shut my mouth. I felt like I was watching a different person react, but it was me! After a day of raging I would lay in bed hearing, “You should just shoot yourself, you’re ruining your children,” over and over in my head.

My children were afraid of me, one was cutting, one kept running away. I knew it was my fault, but I couldn’t seem to admit it. I couldn’t handle anymore guilt.


Everything seemed to cause stress, nothing was peaceful, the smallest thing would send me to my room to hide. The asthma I had since I was a little girl, that was so horrible I felt like my lungs were going to explode, was magnified by the stress and rages.

When I knew it couldn’t handle any more, it got worse. I started having miscarriages, I became allergic to everything, I was always wheezing, I had constant headaches, and all I had the energy to do was sleep.

I was sure my situation just needed more prayer, so I prayed and prayed, went to counseling, went through deliverance, but I only ended up feeling even more guilt, because I wasn’t getting better.
Then one day I began to see a connection…. when I’d eat or smell certain things I would lose control afterwards. I noticed a pattern between stressful situations and being too tired to leave my bed. I finally saw that I had been living with severe adrenal fatigue for most of my motherhood. I also realized that I had been deeply wounded by things in my childhood that I didn't even remember clearly.
It was a journey of trial and error, learning exactly what had been poisoning my body and mind every day, but gradually I discovered tools and strategies that helped me make huge strides in calming the drama in my home and heart. I learned to overcome the wounds and trauma, I learned to shut down the lies.
As my adrenals healed and my heart healed from past trauma, the suicide, depression, and asthma disappeared, and energy came back. I didn’t feel trapped inside a rampaging maniac, I felt peaceful for the first time!

I wake up now content about the day to come. I’m not worried that I’ll ruin someone’s life today! In fact, I spend my days helping others find freedom, healing, and JOY!

You are not alone, and you don’t have to feel trapped by your past, by lies you've believed, or even by physical issues like adrenal fatigue! There is a simple path to peace. If you are ready to begin, contact me!
 

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