How can you see out of those lenses?
I regularly find myself telling my husband that he might see better if he cleaned his glasses.  He’ll come home at the end of a workday with so many scratches and smudges that I can’t even imagine how he made it through the day.
 
 He'll take them off, clean them well, then say, “Ahh! That’s better!” and we’ll both have a good laugh that he didn’t even notice how dirty they were.
 
But we all look at the world through damaged lenses on a regular basis without even realizing that our lenses are scratched, smudged, and even sometimes completely shattered. We walk along thinking we’re seeing things as they really are, but our vision is skewed by the damage.
 
 Have your glasses been scratched by rejection? Shattered by abuse? Dinged by loneliness? 
We get so used to living with wounds and trauma that we think we’ve dealt with it all just because we stuffed it down and don’t think about it. 
 
 The person wearing rejection colored glasses might see everything based on the viewpoint that people are just going to dislike them anyway, so what’s the use?
Bitterness colored lenses keep us from seeing good in people and from finding hope for the future.
Looking through lenses of shame always makes us run and hide from life, wanting to avoid people and situations that might make us get hurt again.
 
The problem is that most of us don’t even know our lenses are skewed! If we don’t know there is a problem, we won’t do anything to fix it.
 
 But signs that our glasses are damaged are in the everyday response to life.  
 We blow up at our children, avoid people, feel sad, judge people, feel left out, can’t accept love, shut off communication, break relationships…
These are all because we don’t even recognize that we are looking at our world through lies.
 
 Finding the lie (the color of your lenses) is the first step in overcoming the view you have of the world that is keeping you back from hope and joy.
 If you aren’t seeing the truth through clear lenses, you don’t even know what you’re missing!
 
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I thought I was a horrible person...

 
Everything made me so angry inside and I couldn’t stop the screaming rages. I could hear myself say, “Just STOP!” in the middle of a fit, but I was helpless to shut my mouth. I felt like I was watching a different person react, but it was me! After a day of raging I would lay in bed hearing, “You should just shoot yourself, you’re ruining your children,” over and over in my head.

My children were afraid of me, one was cutting, one kept running away. I knew it was my fault, but I couldn’t seem to admit it. I couldn’t handle anymore guilt.


Everything seemed to cause stress, nothing was peaceful, the smallest thing would send me to my room to hide. The asthma I had since I was a little girl, that was so horrible I felt like my lungs were going to explode, was magnified by the stress and rages.

When I knew it couldn’t handle any more, it got worse. I started having miscarriages, I became allergic to everything, I was always wheezing, I had constant headaches, and all I had the energy to do was sleep.

I was sure my situation just needed more prayer, so I prayed and prayed, went to counseling, went through deliverance, but I only ended up feeling even more guilt, because I wasn’t getting better.
Then one day I began to see a connection…. when I’d eat or smell certain things I would lose control afterwards. I noticed a pattern between stressful situations and being too tired to leave my bed. I finally saw that I had been living with severe adrenal fatigue for most of my motherhood. I also realized that I had been deeply wounded by things in my childhood that I didn't even remember clearly.
It was a journey of trial and error, learning exactly what had been poisoning my body and mind every day, but gradually I discovered tools and strategies that helped me make huge strides in calming the drama in my home and heart. I learned to overcome the wounds and trauma, I learned to shut down the lies.
As my adrenals healed and my heart healed from past trauma, the suicide, depression, and asthma disappeared, and energy came back. I didn’t feel trapped inside a rampaging maniac, I felt peaceful for the first time!

I wake up now content about the day to come. I’m not worried that I’ll ruin someone’s life today! In fact, I spend my days helping others find freedom, healing, and JOY!

You are not alone, and you don’t have to feel trapped by your past, by lies you've believed, or even by physical issues like adrenal fatigue! There is a simple path to peace. If you are ready to begin, contact me!
 

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